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Love Shouldn’t Be Bought, But Merely Given

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Join me for a little pre-Valentine’s Day rant

Though before I begin, let me set the record straight

I’m not single, bitter, & jaded, though I once was

Happily taken am I, but my views on this day are ones I won’t recant

 

My view is and has always been this about love & devotion

We should show one another how much we care

But not just on designated days, but throughout the year

Why do so many let the calendar dictate when we show our emotions?

 

And why should we feel compelled to let money fill our needs?

Gifts are nice, but random acts of kindness mean so much more

Like a handwritten note on a napkin, back massage, or perhaps helping out with chores

Not individually, but as a whole, we’ve become a nation full of greed

 

They say that love, friendship, and the like are free

And that is how it should be, not having to spend to show our feelings

It sickens me when I see people talk about how much their beau should spend

For if they really love them, surely it shouldn’t be difficult to cough up the money

 

I know many who aren’t greedy & while a gift is nice to receive

They know it’s the little things that count the most

But, there are too many out there who don’t see things that way

Life is only great when there are gifts to retrieve

 

For me, flowers, candy, and the like are nice things

But I don’t need them to know how much someone cares

Hugs, kisses, laughter, & being able to make happy memories is what matters most

Love is shown best by the way you treat me, not pretty packages tied up with strings

 

So this Valentine’s Day, I choose to spend it without spending

My beau & I both agreed that what matters most is the love we share

So a quiet night in to watch movies, play cards, & cuddle on the couch is what we will do

Focusing not on store bought gifts, but on a love we share that’s unending

 

***NOTE***

For those who want to celebrate the day, I am not saying you shouldn’t. The celebration of love is wonderful, but stop and think about this…is it really necessary to spend a lot of money to show the ones you love how you feel? Make a handmade card, cook something special instead of going out to eat, help your kids make handmade cards for the kids in their class, etc. And if you really feel compelled to spend money, buy one flower instead of a dozen or buy the smaller box of chocolates. It shouldn’t be about quantity, but quality. If your love is real, long lasting, & true…those special in your life won’t be heartbroken that you didn’t spend much. The thought really does count. And hey, remember this when/if you celebrate as well, it’s not just about sweethearts. Love is about family & friendships as well. Celebrate love, all love, and all year long whenever the mood strikes. ❤

Random stuff going on inside my brain….

I am so finicky about “my parking spot”. It’s not actually mine, I park on the street, but it’s the spot right in front of the house and with only one street to park on till March first, vying for a space here is oh so fun. 😉 As mentioned in other blogs, I live in the corner house, so I try to park at that end of the street. When I got back from dropping Zach off with his dad, I had to originally park about four houses down from where I live, which isn’t bad except when there’s bad weather or just insanely cold. Then when I was walking to the house, the second car from the corner left, so I hurried back to my car after dropping my stuff off into the sun room and headed to re-park my car. As I was getting out of my car, the guy in the first spot said, “I’m leaving, so you can have “your” spot back.” I smiled, laughed, and said, “Thank you.” The neighbors see me a lot, carting groceries in, getting Grandma in and out of the car, etc….people pay more attention to things around here than I realized. It’s so funny how much getting “my parking spot” means to me, it totally made my day. ♥

I have been thinking about something. Surprise, surprise, eh? 😉 Whenever I offer up words of encouragement, hope, offer to pray, do anything to help, make someone smile or laugh, etc….people thank me. I do the same thing, thank someone whenever they help me in any way because it’s the polite thing to do. However, on the other hand, when I do something for someone, I feel so humbled when someone thanks me because I don’t think thanks are necessary, even though I know why they give it. I do what I can when I can for those I love, those in need because I like helping, making things better even in the smallest of ways. I don’t seek anything in return. Knowing I was able to be there for someone is all the thanks I need. But, like I do for others, I know people will still tell me, “Thank you.” because it means a lot to them. Well, you all mean a lot to me. I say this from time to time because it’s just who I am, so here it is again, but not for the last time of course, I love you all and want you to know how very special you are to me, how much I value your roles in my life. ♥

Life is short, live it while you have it. Don’t wait for the perfect time to say or do something because while you’re waiting, it might become too late. Embrace life! Embrace your mistakes, embrace each failure, embrace each moment….each laugh, tear, smile, joy, fear, hope, moment with those you love. Life is trial and error, we’re going to make mistakes for the time we’re here, but it’s what we learn from them, it’s that we should grow and continue to better ourselves till our last breath. Live, laugh, love.

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