You’re still so young, but there’s some things I think you should know. I write this letter with the hopes that when you read it, you’ll know how much I love you.
You are beautiful.
Can’t is only a limitation you set for yourself.
If you want it, claim it.
Treat others with respect.
Give, give freely, but don’t be a doormat.
Don’t abuse any power or influence you get.
Laugh, laugh a lot.
Chase your dreams.
You most likely won’t need things like Algebra post high school, but I expect you to do your best in ALL of your classes.
You don’t NEED to be in a relationship to have a happy life, to feel complete.
However, there’s nothing wrong with being in a committed relationship, not if it brings you joy and it’s someone you love that loves you.
If you need to cry, do it. Trying to look strong when you’re hurting isn’t necessary. Crying helps.
Girls don’t have to like pink and frills. Guys can, without being gay and whether they are or not, I go back to the respect thing.
It doesn’t matter if someone is different than you. Their skin color, religious beliefs, sexual orientation, political views, etc may not match yours and that’s okay. People can be different and still get along.
I love you. I will always love you. I will be your biggest cheerleader.
Being your biggest cheerleader will not cause me to sugarcoat things when you need to know the truth or cover your butt when you’re in the wrong.
I cry, a lot. Not all of my tears are sad ones. When I’m proud of you, I’ll cry. When I’m scared, I’ll cry. When I’m really angry, I’ll cry. When I’m over the moon happy, I’ll cry. I’m not weak. Like I said above, if you need to cry, do it. Crying or showing emotions doesn’t make you weak, it makes you human.
Did I say you’re beautiful? I did? Well, you are.
If you’re wrong, admit it.
If you need to apologize, do it, but only if you mean it.
Don’t let pride ruin relationships with those you love. It’s okay to apologize first, even if you don’t feel you were wrong or more in the wrong.
Like stated above, if you love someone, it’s okay to say it, but only say it if you mean it.
Words can heal or hurt, use them wisely.
Believe in yourself. No matter how much we may believe in you, it won’t hold nearly enough weight unless you believe it too.
Some people really suck. Some people are mean, beyond cruel. With that said, know that some people are really wonderful. Some people are loving and kind. Don’t give up on humanity, no matter how bad things get.
The world is huge, don’t let yourself get lost in it. Remember too that, one voice and one person can make a huge difference. So stand up for what you believe in.
And before I end this letter, once more, I loved you from the moment I knew I was pregnant. I loved you as you grew within me. I loved you the first time I held you. I loved you every time you threw up on me. I loved you every time you threw a tantrum. I loved you every time you curled up in my arms. I loved you every time you smiled at me. I loved you yesterday. I love you today. I will love you tomorrow. I will always love you.
No matter what life throws at you, me, your daddy, your brother, or any of us, you are my daughter. I love you. As big as the sky, for as long as the stars shine, I love you. You and Zach are my life.
**picture I took at my son’s birthday party**